Why are you behind others in Life

Why are you behind others in life?

We sometimes feel this feeling

The feeling that "Everyone" around us is going ahead, They're becoming better and better 

Yet, We're not improving at all 

That's right and wrong at the same time 

If you compare yourself to people according to only a single matrics, you may be right 

You're right that "You're not improving"

But what if, just what if 

You look at your life in a retrospective, comprehensive way

Because I also felt this feeling that, I'm not improving, I'm not growing

People around me were (mainly on social media) becoming better and better 

It was because of either of these 2 things 

1) They were being fake on social media (You don't know the reality)

2) They're only showing their wins 

Because no matter who they're, if they're winning all the time, they're lying 

There's no way everything's perfect for them, everyone's lacking in one thing or another 

I'm not saying this to make you feel good or something

You can observe it yourself, observe your own life, observe the lives of people around you 

One is good at something, while the other person might be bad at something

While the one is making progress in one area, the other might be making progress in another area 

That's how life is 

That's how things are 

That's how things will work out 

I have done a lot of things, I've overcome mental health issues, lost weight, improved my knowledge, and whatnot 

But what if I start to cry and complain about people my age making lots of money?

It's of no use, They haven't done what I've done 

They haven't faced what I have

Everyone has a different life to live, You'll see results in many areas of life as well 

Just give it time, just be patient

You can't see improvement in all the areas of your life, Just be grateful for the ones you're seeing

Make those your motivation to keep improving, keep doing, and keep growing

That's what your aim should be 

That's what my aim is, it's Me v/s My past always, all the time, every time

I don't care about how others are in one area because, in comprehension, I'm the best 

Yeah that's my belief and should be yours as well, because

If you don't believe you're the best, someone else will and they'll surpass you 

Think, believe, and be the best, be your own competition

That's how you win every time (Only if you improve yourself regularly)

You're not behind others, You're only seeing their wins

That's the difference, just that