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Why you'll never find your PURPOSE
To Live a fulfilling life you must find out your purpose and A zone of expertise… many people don't and that's why they feel, UNFULFILLED
Do you know?
Many people are living their lives feeling unfulfilled, maybe you're one of them.
Maybe you don't like what you do
Maybe you just think you like what you do…
Or
Maybe you do like what you do but are not good at it.
Whatever the case is…
If your purpose… what you do and want in life doesn't come under a zone
Zone of expertise
It's a middle intersection point between 3 elements:-
What you love, What you're good at and What will earn you money
If you do tick all 3 of these boxes you'll be fulfilled
But if there's even a single box left unchecked… You bet
You will always feel like “something is missing”
But many people make this mistake like I did, The mistake is that
They think they can become good at anything and that's not true
I learned coding, graphic designing and what now… even years later
I couldn't become good at it
I felt stuck and I just couldn't grow in these skills, maybe because I wasn't dedicated
But I was putting in 3-4 hr every day in those skills and I still couldn't get em
That's when I got my biggest lesson:- Try things for a few months and see if you're learning and growing
But focus on this point:- Learning and growing
I'm not saying you can become an expert in just a few months no…
All I'm saying is if you're easily able to learn and grasp whatever is being said
You're able to implement things easily and even if not you're enjoying and learning
That's good
But if even after months you feel like you just can't even grasp the basics…
That thing isn't for you, believe me
You must accept it,
We're told we can be anything, that's not true
Someone said this to me and it stuck with me:-
“We can't become anything or everything that we want but we can be everything we are”
You can be anything that you are, just know yourself, know what you love
And believe me, or not
You can easily become everything or anything that you are
Because you're already who you are
Haha this is a deep psychological sh*t I know but that's how I come up with my purpose
Writing and Copywriting
I love them, I'm good at them and there's money in it
What else do I even need Right?
Right!!!
That's all for this email, I hope that it might have helped you a little or maybe a lot
Your boy
Lalit sharma